Today while on facebook I came across a link to a blog.  The blog  belongs to a mother (Joanne) of a friend of mine (Allison).  I'm  thinking it would probably make for some good reading seeing as how my  friend is hilarious and she had to get it from someone.  I was so right.   I read through the blog for about an hour when I decided I needed to  save some reading material for another day.  I guess what makes the blog  even more interesting to read is that my friend would always tell me  stories about her mom, so this blog  just reinforced the stories I had  heard.  One of the blogged inputs was about how Joanne had met her  husband.  I've decided it would be a good story to share since not every  one knows how we meet.  And in a strange twist of coincidences, one of  Joanne's daughters (Charley) was a helper in how Daniel and I met.
It  was the weekend after Valentine's day in 2008.  I was already annoyed  from the holiday because all of my roommates had received Valentines  from boys, some even multiple (Khealynn).  On Valentine's day itself I  went out to dinner with some friends of mine who were also single and  called it an early night since I was under the weather.  Amber had come  out for the weekend since she liked to visit often,  being only four  hours away in Rexburg, ID.  We went to a play that weekend too, Jungle  Book at BYU, which is initially why she came.  Sunday came and Amber and  I slept through my church time which was 8:30 AM.  We decided to hit up  church when our cousin, Branden had church which was 1:30 PM.
We  got to church a few minutes late and sat in the back.  We happened to  be sitting on the same row as Charley so after church I said hello and  had a quick chat.  Daniel was sitting with Charley, she was pretty much  one of the only people he got along with at church.  While Charley and I  were talking, Daniel was trying to get her to introduce us, but she  just brushed him aside.  After chatting Amber and I went into the lobby  to wait for Branden who was running late.  About 5 minutes later this  guy came up to me and said, "Hey, you're Charley's friend".  I said yes  and he then introduced himself and his friend Ben.  While talking we  found out that Ben was going to the same school as Amber so they started  talking.  Apparently Ben was fulfilling his wingman duties as Daniel  explained to me later.  Daniel then started chatting with me.  My first  impression I was just some guy at church who wanted to talk. Amber had  to tell me that Daniel was hitting on me because I was so oblivious. He  invited me to Sunday dinner, basically just a bunch of coeds hanging  out.  I told him I'd think about it, but decided to hang out with my  sister instead.
A couple of days later Allison gave me a call.   She asked me if I remembered Dan from church and if it was ok if Charley  gave him my number.  I thought about it for a minute, I was a little  hesitant because he didn't really catch my eye, but then Allison said  something that made me decide to give the ok.  She said, "He just got  out of a relationship and that he didn't want anything serious".  She  also said, "Hey if you're not interested you can just tell him you got  serious with the guy you are dating".  I figured it was worth a shot.  I  was dating someone, but it was not exclusive and the guy was a little  flaky.
A few days later I received a phone call from Dan.  I  think I let it hit the voicemail first because I didn't recognize the  number.  I listened to the message and called him back.  I was on my way  home from tanning.  At the time I used a tingler tanning lotion which  if anyone has ever used knows it burns.  It makes you feel really itchy  so I was looking forward to getting home so I could shower and get ready  for a date, with the other guy I was dating.  We chatted a moment and  he invited me to another Sunday dinner at Charley's.  I figured, why  not, and I accepted.  When I walked into Charley's apartment that Sunday  and saw Daniel, I realized he was a lot cuter then I had remembered.   Dinner was fun and we were able to talk a bit.  I remember being bugged  that he didn't offer to walk me home (we lived in the same apartment  complex), but it was a fun evening none the less.  A few days later he  called me.  I was in the computer lab so I resorted to texting.  He then  asked me out on a date via text.  I was annoyed that he asked me out  through text, but seeing as how I lived at school that semester I  figured it was probably the only plausible way he could ask me out.
Things  went well on our date obviously and here we are 3 years later.  Almost  to our 2 year anniversary and we even have our our addition to our  family...Keif.  I guess my story is not as cool as Joanne's who can add  in 20 something years later to her blog, but I look forward to being  able to share this story with our kids and even grandkids.  For now it's  a story for the blog.
Revised Proposal
14 years ago
 



 
that is cute! I wish my 'how we met' story is interesting, but it is so not!
ReplyDeleteYAY. I am glad I am mentioned in the story, as I am sure Ben will be too.
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